Saturday, October 21, 2006

Women and one-track minds?

It's been irritating me -this one...not least cos it goes against all my carefully constructed theories about women. But girl with a one track mind is being called insightful because of precisely that - it goes against EVERYONE'S well-constructed theories!

"Here" ,the world seems to say, "is a woman with a sex drive and proud of it. No touchy-feely (no pun here -editor) emotions for this one". Well - methinks this chick is taking us for a ride. Hey -we've all met women who enjoy sex and not too shy to admit it- but no one -at least in my "normal people" sphere seems to think of sex ALL the time.


Its weird - its just a carefully built porn bubble for the refined man - no never-ending cleavage or red bathing suits here- its sophisticated, well-worded sex interspersed with shades of a feminist movement but its still got sweaty bodies and enough references to wetness to make you think sexually depraved women instead of a leaky tap next time you hear the word. Gotta think lowest common denominator, mate!


Bosh - No one's got a one track mind- not even those geniuses in school who built 30,000 Cd libraries of porn. Its possible that women may be able to detach sexual feeling from emotional but that's only in cases where a woman has had a rough ride with fickle relationships, and per se has HAD to do so! Have to hear the women's opinion on this!

5 comments:

educatedunemployed said...

What is it that is really bothering your sensibilities.A woman who actually thinks of sex most times and isn't afraid to admit it, or knowning that women might actually not mind sleeping with a man and want absolutely no emotional issues attached to it.

I don't know such women either.No matter how rough a ride a woman has been on with fickle relationships, giving one self up sexually almost always involves the emotions.Unless of course one is making money out of it.

I do how ever believe, if the pressure was off women to be so righteous, one would have more sexually liberated women in the society.

Pratik said...

Is it bothering you precisely becoz it flies in the face of all the stereotypes constcuted over aeons of human existence?

Unknown said...

EU/Daddy: am so glad am being challenged here..makes a world of difference from all the feelgoods associated with blogging!

but heck-let me make my reply the topic of the next post?

Unknown said...

Wow, 30,000 Cd library and you call them geniuses.

Honestly there's a lot that can be said about 'girl with a one track mind'...the obvious case in point being that she DOESN'T. If she can lob website about it, she doesn't.

I would have to agree normal people don't think about sex ALL the time, but i don't think fickle relationships are the stamp that enables detachment. That's choice. Even if she's a sex worker...i've heard emotional tirades on how there is no choice for some women, well there are. that's another post, another comment at another time.

But Porn my friend has got to be single most successful Pavlov's bell in the history of alternative entertainment for the vouyeristic carnally fixated indvidual.

I truly believe that it compels most men (and some women, i've personally met them!) who have had their senses (and I cannot stress enough their imagination!) dulled to actually having to maintain genius lube-raries (pun intended). It's like you need a CD to get off the next time you're aroused!

'Women with a one track mind'...is the answer to some sod's dream of actually getting an 'intellectual' twist on a panacea for losers.

A one track mind is a fantasy that siphons off the need to think, embellish, actually work that grey matter, sans emotion, sans sense, logic - just a switch on wetness concept that only happens when people are looking for the inanely straight forward wet dream while they type out analysis reports, strategise for yet another conference call with the investors, work late, need a 'fix' and oh...feel bored.

Yeah, that's gotta be it!

- Eliamma

Unknown said...

Couldnt agree more, eli.. its what pisses me off about the site...its, as you say, a packaged wet dream...but masquerading under the guise of feminism!

PS: You have to agree ANYONE with 30,000cd library of anything's a genius! :)

PPS: would like to see you write fiction..or incidents the way you see them in your head..really.